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Derek Fredrickson
The most capable founders I have ever worked with are almost always the ones carrying the most self doubt. And the ones who seem the most certain, they are often the ones who should be questioning themselves even more. Now that might sound a bit counterintuitive coming from someone who works with founders and CEOs every day on the operational side of their business, but I have seen it too many times to ignore, and I’ve even lived it myself early on in building this, the COO Solution, I recall I was in a sales conversation with a founder whose company was sitting in the 10 to $15 million revenue range. And at some point in that conversation, I felt it. That quiet voice that said, Have you actually done this at this level?
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Derek Fredrickson
Derek, do you have the right to be sitting across from this person telling them you can help them? And I took a step back and I honestly asked myself, can I really do this? And then something shifted. I realized the question I was asking myself was entirely the wrong one. It was not about me. It was about the COO who would become their second in command. And that revenue range, that complexity, that was exactly the sweet spot of experience for the operator I would place alongside them. And the moment I stopped making it about my credentials and started making it more about what I was actually building, the doubt lost its grip. That is the reframe this episode is built around. Welcome back to the COO Solution podcast, the missing piece to scaling your business with ease.
02:11
Derek Fredrickson
I’m your host, Derek Fredrickson and today we are talking about Imposter Syndrome. What it actually costs you as a founder, how it shows up in ways you may not be recognizing, and how to reframe CEO leadership in a way that makes the self doubt not just manageable, but useful. Let’s get into it.
Now let me be direct about something first. Imposter syndrome is not a sign that you are weak or unqualified. In many cases, it is actually a sign that you care deeply about doing the job well. The founders who never doubt themselves are often the ones who should be doubting themselves the most. But here is the problem.
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Derek Fredrickson
When self doubt goes underground, when you do not acknowledge it, when you do not examine it or talk about it does not just disappear, it manifests. It shows up in your decisions. It shows up in how you lead your team. And it shows up in the kind of company culture you create, often without you ever connecting the dots. That is one of the reasons the right second in command changes everything, not just operationally, but personally as well. Listen, A great COO not only takes execution off your plate.
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Derek Fredrickson
They create the conditions in which you as the CEO can grow without the weight of daily operations amplifying every moment of self doubt. And when you are not buried in the work, you have the space to lead. And when you have the space to lead, the doubt has less oxygen. At the COO solution. We have worked alongside founders across a wide range of industries and revenue levels and the pattern is remarkably consistent. The most capable founders are often the ones carrying the most doubt and the ones who struggle most with delegation or with trusting their team with making bold calls. They are almost always being driven, at least in part, by an unexamined belief that they are not enough.
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Derek Fredrickson
That belief is costing them more than they know, and it is costing their businesses in ways that do not show up on a balance sheet until the damage is already done. And today I want to name what that actually looks like in practice, and give you a different way to think about what it means to be a true CEO.
Before we talk about how to address it, we need to see it clearly. Because imposter syndrome rarely announces itself. It disguises itself as other things that look like reasonable business decisions until you examine the fear underneath them. Pattern number one, you over explain and over justify your decisions. When a founder does not trust their own judgment, they compensate by building elaborate cases for every call they make.
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Derek Fredrickson
They over communicate their reasoning not because the team needs it, but because they need to prove to themselves and to others that the decision was sound. And the result? A leadership style that feels exhausting to be around and a team that starts to wonder why their leader seems so defensive about every choice.
Pattern number two is you avoid making decisions until you feel certain. Imposter syndrome often masquerades itself as thoroughness. So the founder who needs one more data point, one more conversation, one more round of input before they can commit. The problem is that certainty in leadership is a myth, and the longer you wait for it, the more your team learns that direction comes slowly, momentum is hard to build, and the leader at the top is not fully in the game.
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Derek Fredrickson
Pattern Number three, you micromanage because you do not trust your team. But the real issue is that you do not trust yourself. This one is subtle and quite important. Most founders tell themselves they micromanage because their team cannot be trusted to execute at the standard they require. And sometimes that is true, but more often the real driver is this. If someone else makes the call and it goes wrong, the founder’s doubt gets confirmed. So they stay in control, not to protect the team, but to protect themselves from the evidence that they are not enough. We worked with the founder, a service based business owner with a strong team and loyal clients, and redo.
08:07
Derek Fredrickson
And she was convinced that her clients had hired her specifically, that they only trusted her, that if someone else on her team delivered the work, the relationship would fracture. So she stayed in the delivery. She stayed in the client calls, the follow ups and the day to day execution, which her team was fully trained and supported to handle. So on the surface, it looked like a client retention strategy, but underneath it was something else entirely. And when we got honest about what was driving it, the truth surprised even her. She trusted her team completely. What she did not trust was herself, specifically, her belief that she had built something good enough that clients would stay, even when she was not the one in the room. That is imposter syndrome in one of its most invisible forms.
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Derek Fredrickson
Not the fear that your team will fail, the fear that without you at the center of everything. The whole thing falls apart. And that fear left unaddressed, will keep you small indefinitely, no matter how capable the people around you are. I’ve seen this pattern resolve almost immediately when the right operator steps in. Not because the CEO forces the founder out of the work, but because having someone else in the room who is trusted, capable and accountable gives the founder permission to step back. The evidence is accumulating that the business does not fall apart without them in every single decision. And that evidence, over time, is what actually quiets the doubt. Not the pep talk, the proof.
And pattern number four, as you struggle to own your wins. Imposter syndrome makes successes feel temporary and failure feel permanent.
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Derek Fredrickson
When things go well, the founder with deep imposter syndrome attributes it to luck, timing, or the team. When things go wrong, they internalize it completely. Over time, this creates a leader who is chronically uncertain, inconsistently confident, and unable to build the kind of credibility and trust that a scaling company needs from the person at the top.
Here’s the reframe I want to offer you today. And I want you to sit with this because it changes everything if you let it. You are not supposed to have all the answers. Leadership is not a destination you arrive at. It is a practice you get better and better at.
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Derek Fredrickson
And the CEOs and founders who scale successfully are not the ones who stopped doubting themselves. They are the ones who learned to lead in the presence of doubt rather than waiting for it to go away.
Here’s reframe number one. Imposter syndrome is a signal, not a verdict. The discomfort you feel when you are operating at the edge of your capability is not evidence that you do not belong. It is evidence that you are growing. Every time you feel that pull of self doubt, ask yourself, am I in this position because someone made a mistake? Or am I here because I have built something that required more of me than I knew I had? The answer almost always is the second one.
Reframe number two. Your team does not need a perfect leader. They need a present one.
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Derek Fredrickson
One of the most damaging myths in leadership is that the person at the top needs to project certainty at all times. What your team actually needs is a leader who is honest, who thinks clearly under pressure, who communicates with clarity, and who shows up fully even when they do not have all the answers. Vulnerability, when it is paired with decisiveness, builds more trust than false confidence ever could.
Reframe number three. Self doubt and self trust are not opposites. This is the one that changes how founders relate to imposter syndrome the most. You do not have to eliminate the doubt in order to trust yourself. Self trust is not the absence of uncertainty. It is the decision to act with integrity and intentionality in spite of it.
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Derek Fredrickson
The founder who learns to make decisions from their values rather than from fear builds a completely different kind of company than the one who waits to feel ready.
Reframe number four. The role of the CEO is to grow at the pace of the company. Your business will keep demanding more of you. New markets, bigger teams, more complex decisions, higher stakes. That is not a problem. That is the role. And the question is not whether you will be challenged beyond your current capability.
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Derek Fredrickson
The question is whether you have built the support, reflection, practices and honest relationships that allow you to grow into each new version of the role as it evolves. That is why having the right operator alongside you matters more than most founders realize. Listen, a great COO does not just run the business while you focus on strategy. They become your most trusted strategic thought partner. They sit alongside you on your shoulder, in your corner and they give you something that is almost impossible to find anywhere else in a founder’s life. A space to be vulnerable, without judgment to say out loud what you cannot say to your team, your board or your investors. To admit the doubt, work through it honestly and come out the other side with clarity rather than noise. Think of them as your consigliere.
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Derek Fredrickson
The person who knows everything, sees everything and is completely committed to your success and the success of the business. Not a yes person. Not someone who tells you what you want to hear. Someone who tells you what you need to hear from a place of complete trust and complete confidentiality.
The best CEO-COO relationships I have ever seen are the ones where the founder becomes a better CEO over time. Not because they figured it all out alone, but because they had the right person running alongside them, holding the operational line and creating the space for the founder to grow into the leader the business needs them to be.
Let’s make this practical. Here are three things you can do this week to start shifting your relationship with self doubt.
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Derek Fredrickson
Step number one. Name it out loud. The next time that voice shows up, the one questioning whether you are enough, whether people are about to figure out you are as not as confident as you look. Say it out loud to yourself in a journal or to someone you trust completely. I am feeling like an imposter right now. That’s it. You do not have to solve it in the moment. You just have to stop letting it operate in the background where it has the most power. Named. It becomes manageable, unnamed. It runs the show. Step number two. Separate the feeling from the fact.
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Derek Fredrickson
Ask yourself one simple question. Is what I’m feeling based on evidence or based on fear? If there’s real evidence, a skill gap, a knowledge gap, something that genuinely needs to be addressed, act on it. That is not imposter syndrome, that is good judgment. But if the doubt is free floating, not connected to anything specific, just telling you that you are not enough, recognize it for what it is, a feeling, not a fact. And then make the decision anyway. Step number three. Return to your convictions. This is the one that has made the biggest difference for me personally. When the doubt gets loud, I do not try to argue with it or analyze my way out of it. I return to a set of convictions that I have built over time and tested against real results. I trust myself.
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Derek Fredrickson
The results speak. I trust my team. I trust the process. I am confident we have a solution that works. And while it may not be the right fit for every company or every client, for the ones where it fits, it works. That is not arrogance, that is evidence-based self trust. And it is built slowly through showing up consistently, making decisions with integrity and watching what happens when you do. You cannot think your way to that type of confidence. You have to earn it. And the good news is if you are listening to this, you’ve already been earning it. You just may not have been recognizing it or keeping score.
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Derek Fredrickson
Here’s what I’ve seen in the founders who actually break through this. They do not arrive at a place where the self doubt is gone. They arrive at a place where they recognize it faster, name it sooner and return to their convictions more quickly. And then the business grows, the stakes get higher and the doubt reappears in a new form, new level, new devil. That is not a failure of leadership. That is the nature of it. So the founder who thinks that one day they will outgrow the discomfort of landing at the edge of their capabilities is waiting for something that will never arrive. What actually changes is not the presence of self doubt, it is the relationship you have with it. And here is the hardest truth I can offer you today.
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Derek Fredrickson
If you keep doing what you have always done, you will keep feeling what you have always felt. More of the same is more of the same. So the founders who scale with genuine confidence are not the ones who got lucky or woke up one day feeling ready. They are the ones who decided that wanting change meant being willing to change in how they lead, in how they think and how they relate to the voice that tells them they are not enough. That willingness, not the certainty, not the credentials, not the track record, is what separates the founder who stays stuck from the one who breaks through.
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23:08
Derek Fredrickson
and if you know of a fellow founder CEO who is quietly carrying this self doubt but has never heard it named quite like this, share this episode with them. It might be exactly what they need to hear right now and you may be wondering yourself whether your business has the operational and leadership foundation it needs to scale with confidence. So take our free [email protected] and in five minutes you will have a clearer picture of where to focus. And lastly, are you carrying imposter syndrome right now? Has this episode named something you have been living with?
24:13
Derek Fredrickson
Send me a message on LinkedIn or reach out at the coosolution.com I would love to hear from you and talk about it some more. That is a wrap of today’s episode. I will see you next time on the COO Solution podcast. Thanks everyone.
